BLOGS by Paul Rhodes
PUSHCHAIRS CAN CAUSE BABY STRESS? BUGGY THAT!
Friday November 21,2008
By Paul Rhodes
Pushchairs that face out allow your baby to take in the world
Today saw another typical morning at our house.
After breakfast and a quick shower, I plopped Golden Boy into his pushchair and rushed him off to nursery before I raced on to work. It was only when I arrived at the office that I realised I had got it all wrong. During our journey to nursery, Golden Boy was facing away from me in his pushchair and, according to new research, that will have undermined his development. A study carried out by Dr Suzanne Zeedyk from Dundee University found that children who faced away from their parents while in a baby buggy were more likely to be stressed during the journey. Parents also talked less to the child if they were in an away-facing buggy. This, of course, is very bad. Dr Zeedyk said: "If babies are spending significant amounts of time in a baby buggy that undermines their ability to communicate easily with their parent, at an age when the brain is developing more than it will ever again in life, then this has to impact negatively on th
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CAN THIS MAN MAKE A GOOD MOTHER? OF COURSE HE CAN...
Friday November 14,2008
By Paul Rhodes
Thomas Beatie
In a week that’s been horrendous in terms of child welfare – the Baby P case, the infant brothers murdered in Manchester and the sickening claims made in the Matthews trial – I thought I’d try to write about something positive.
Thomas Beatie, a man who was born a woman but gave birth to a daughter earlier this year, is expecting again. The 34-year-old from California, dad to baby Susan, kept his female reproductive organs despite having surgery to flatten his chest when he began living as a man in his twenties. Now, Mr Beatie’s situation is unusual to say the least but the fact is he and his wife Nancy are clearly keen to be parents. And I reckon that people who go through the bother of buying sperm from a donor and then getting inseminated are likely going to treat their children right and raise them well. It’s people who are genuine in their intention and desire to have children that we like to see become parents. And despite the horrors we’ve read about this week, there are still millions of good parents out there doing great jobs bringing up their kids. It’s just easy to forget that in a week like this. I wish the B
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THE NIGHT I MET IGGLEPIGGLE IN MY KITCHEN
Wednesday November 5,2008
By Paul Rhodes
My Igglepiggle
I'VE always harboured dreams of becoming an architect and of one day designing funky buildings like the Bilbao Guggenheim or Mies Van Der Rohe’s Barçelona house.
But I never took this career path because I am hopeless when it comes to drawing. Stick men really are the zenith of my artistic achievement. So when I was asked by the coordinators of Children In Need to come up with a new look for Igglepiggle, star of the CBeebies programme In The Night Garden, of which Golden Boy is a big fan, I was more than a little nervous. When I found out that my makeover would be auctioned - from Monday - for the charity alongside designs by fashionista Zandra Rhodes (no relation, in case you were wondering), Sporty Spice Mel C and the actress Isla Fisher, a knot grew in my throat. How on earth was I to compete? This was the question I kept asking myself t
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CHOOSING YOUR BABY'S GENDER IS WRONG
Sunday November 2,2008
By Paul Rhodes
Is it fair to choose the sex of your unborn child?
AMID the furore caused by a couple of loudmouth "comedians" this week, one interesting story seemed to slip beneath the radar.
This concerned the growing number of British parents heading abroad for medical procedures that will determine the sex of their babies. Is it me or is this not just plain weird? I can be a complete control freak, but even I think there are some things that should be left to chance - such as whether you give birth to a girl or a boy. Just because there is technology available to make your sex selection wish come true, it doesn't mean it should be used. That's why the treatment is illegal in Britain and many other right-thinking countries (apparently, it's allowed in the US and Russia). According to one report I've read, it is the parents, for example, of three boys or two girls who have attended surgeries set up by foreign medical clinics to make sure their next baby is of the opposite sex. I think if you're lucky enough to have two or three children in the first place and
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POOR ROLE MODELS ARE LETTING OUR CHILDREN DOWN
Friday October 24,2008
By Paul Rhodes
How can he learn the beautiful game when no one sets a good example for him to follow?
IF footballer and ex-con Joey Barton now wants to be a “role model.” I hope he does a better job than his less criminally minded but equally repugnant Newcastle teammates.
The way they crowded round referee Rob Styles and berated him for his controversial decision to send off Habib Beye not long after the start of Newcastle’s eventual 2-2 draw with Manchester City on Monday was disgraceful. Just what has happened to the Football Association’s much-publicised Respect campaign? It now looks as dead as Tottenham’s pre-season hopes of winning a place in Europe. The Respect programme, as the players of Newcastle United and pretty much all other Premier League clubs have forgotten, was meant to tackle abuse towards match officials. This would, in turn, “ensure a safe, positive environment for everyone to enjoy football”, according to the FA, as “abuse and pressure from the sidelines needs to stop if we are to ensure young children enjoy, stay and progress in the game”. Because outbursts, like the one a
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